END THE EFFECTS OF ABUSE
Abuse is poorly defined in most dictionaries - "It is simply anything that is forced on to a person that they don't want - be it "PHYSICAL SEXUAL VERBAL OR EMOTIONAL." The point of this article is about people who have been abused by another person - group - or even an organization - and most importantly how it affects their life afterwards. The consequences of abuse are varied, but for all, LIFE IS NEVER THE SAME AGAIN for the abused person. Their view of the world changes, they never FEEL quite right again. The list of negative consequences is endless. To name a few: - Relationship problems, low self esteem, lack of confidence, feeling different, phobias, compulsive behaviour, addictions, unwanted emotions of anger, fear hate etc. In fact any negative feelings or thoughts concerning yourself have their roots in 'Negative Identities' and can be eliminated permanently. Abuse by its very nature is a trauma. This is where the amazing "Mace Energy Method" shines. All the above consequences are from the abuse trauma. By addressing and handling the trauma/upset - WITHOUT TALKING ABOUT THE ACTUAL DETAILS OF WHAT HAPPENED - only how it made the recipient FEEL and digging out the negative DECISION made about oneself -all the negative consequences disappear. It's as if the person makes A NEW CLEAN START IN LIFE "free of the negative effects". FREE AT LAST A lady called me one day to say she had a troubled daughter who was also very hard to live with. She told me that a relative had abused the girl as a twelve-year- old and threatened her with a knife and further harm if she ever told anyone. The relation had died now, the girl was twenty and she told her mum. The girl had had eighteen months of a therapy but was still very troubled and behaved badly. The girl came for a session she became aware of an old upset, when I told her I did want any details of what happened she broke down and cried. I thought I had done something wrong - when I asked what was the matter - it turns out they were tears of joy - she said - "I have told that story so many times before in therapy, I am so relieved I don't have to tell it again". Her session lasted about one and half hours handling only how it made her feel and dis-creating negative opinions of herself (the Negative Identities involved). Her mother called a few days later to report the daughter was a changed girl - now happy, co-operative and enthused about life. To conclude, after an upset/trauma (which abuse certainly is) a person is sort of stuck in that time frame, still experiencing the negative feelings etc and reacting the same, any little thing similar in any way happening in life will trigger the upset again (for example any person being slightly forceful) The years of research by Dr Mace has not only uncovered these facts but more importantly the "Mace Energy Method" assists the person in a "NON - STRESSFUL" way to become free of the negative effects FOREVER. With the negative effects gone the person can live a normal happy life, LOVE AND BE LOVED and respond rationally to situations - in other words -" be in control of their lives and live their own dreams". If any type of abuse has been a problem for you, or any of yours, as it has for many people. THE DOOR TO YOUR FREEDOM IS JUST A PHONE CALL OR EMAIL AWAY.